It takes a lot of courage for girls to hit up on and flirt with guys on their initiative. For date girls, if they see a guy they like and if they don't take the initiative to hit up on them, they might miss it. Here I will show girls how to hit up on and flirt with guys.
1: Shy but brave
When men are approached, they can easily accept shy and frank opening speeches. Those nymphos or too talkative girls will make guys lose the fun of hunting, and they can also make them feel that you are often active in social life, which might not be preferred by some males.
If you don't have a better opening remark, you can say "I thought about it for a long time before I took the initiative to talk to you. Although it's a bit embarrassing, I still want to get to know you.”
Many guys think that shy girls are cute and can give them an inexplicable sense of security. First of all, being shy to a certain extent reflects that the girl is not deeply involved in the world, not very scheming, and her emotional experience will not be very rich. Secondly, such characteristic can be very trouble-saving in future dating relationship. You don't need to guess about the feelings and thinking between two people, and you will not feel too tired when getting along.
2: Seek help from your guy
When you are timid and do not know how to speak to him when face to face, you can try to seek his help. For example, if you accidentally hit him, your bag fell on the ground, the contents inside spilled all over, and pretend that your feet are twisted… After all, men are born to be macho and gentle in front of girls, and this guy is might also affected by the concept of patriarchy. They hope that they have the spirit of "heroes to save the beauty". When you ask for help, men are generally willing to lend a helping hand to help you, so as to enjoy the sense of worship that is looked up by a woman.
3: Pay attention to show inner self-cultivation
Some surveys show that there is a big difference between the evaluation criteria for women when men take the initiative to start a conversation and when they are hit up. When they take the initiative to start a conversation, they pay more attention to the appearance and figure of a woman, but when they are hit up, they hope that the other person is a woman with connotation, and being favored by a woman with such connotation will make them more satisfied and successful.
So what a man cares most about is whether the girls who come to start a conversation are decent or not, followed by good looks and good temperament. Keep yourself clean and tidy and speak generously and sincerely. You also have the opportunity to attract his love with your own charm.
